Marriage: The Full Court Press
(15.01.08)
Marriage Does Not Change
So my "MySpace" friend, Randy, has been blogging (very well) about marriage lately and it's had me really thinking as to what it is that I want in a marriage. I did it (marriage) once before and I failed horribly.
Now, before you all (who are familiar with the saga) go and tell me that it wasn't a failure on my part, let me say that there is nothing that can be said or done to convince me that I didn't play a part in the failure of my marriage to Tony and I now understand what it was that I did wrong. I have accepted my responsibility and accountability in the whole debacle that was the deterioration of marriage and most importantly I have learned. I have moved past the hurt and the anger and the blame and all the other negative stuff and I have learned.
Now, before you all (who are familiar with the saga) go and tell me that it wasn't a failure on my part, let me say that there is nothing that can be said or done to convince me that I didn't play a part in the failure of my marriage to Tony and I now understand what it was that I did wrong. I have accepted my responsibility and accountability in the whole debacle that was the deterioration of marriage and most importantly I have learned. I have moved past the hurt and the anger and the blame and all the other negative stuff and I have learned.
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Gay Marriage
(25.11.08)
On Tuesday, November 18, 2008, I had the amazing opportunity to have dinner with a friend of mine from high school, Gina (on my left [right if you're looking at the picture]), and we tal
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An Open Letter to Any Woman Who's Been the Other Woman
(06.06.07)
In light of the UPI news wire story on Fantasia Barrino being sued by her married boyfriend's wife, I thought I'd re-post my open letter to all the women who have played the part of "the other woman:"
So here I go ...
When I got married, I did it for love and I was convinced that it was going to last forever and ever because I married my best friend and closest confidant -- a man whom I trusted wholeheartedly and who had stood by me at one of lowest points when a lot of other people abandoned me.
And when I got married, I guess I just assumed that marriage was supposed to edify, to kill all of our primal urges, make us safe from the outside world. I was wrong.
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Thanksgiving: Why I Stare
(27.11.08)
For my husband:
I oftentimes find myself staring at him. In the beginning, whenever he would catch me, he'd always ask me, "What?"
To which I always shrugged and responded, "Nothing."
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